Truth of success

The Hidden Struggles

Successful people often speak aggressively about their achievements and the need to fail before succeeding. However, they rarely discuss what truly happens during the period of struggle and how important it is. This is the time when you face numerous challenges, and it shapes you in ways you never expected.

Personal Sacrifices

I personally made the difficult decision to leave my home country, where I had a well-paying job that provided me with more money than I needed. This job allowed me to live a dream lifestyle that many people spend their whole lives aspiring to achieve. However, I felt a deep desire to experience life to the fullest and explore new opportunities. Therefore, my wife and I decided to move to Canada, a country where neither of us had any plans or prior experience. We took this leap of faith, believing firmly that what is meant for us will find its way to us, and that this journey would bring us closer to new and fulfilling experiences.

The Initial Struggles

After two weeks of arriving in Canada, we finally figured out a way to make an income through an online business while on a visitor visa. It was a significant breakthrough for us, considering how challenging it is to find legal ways to earn as visitors. However, every time we solved one problem, another one emerged almost immediately, making it feel like we were caught in an endless cycle of challenges. We were constantly on edge, trying to spot and fix problems before they slow us down. Last night was particularly devastating; We lost all the money we worked hard to make on our website because our payment processor unexpectedly froze our account and refunded the customers. This setback not only wiped out our earnings but also left us feeling frustrated and discouraged. Despite our best efforts, it seemed like The obstacles never stopped.

Learning From Nature

As we faced these hardships, my wife and I often found ourselves discussing the natural cycles of the world around us. We talked about how trees shed their leaves in autumn to survive the harsh conditions of winter. This process, which is a critical part of a tree's life cycle, allows it to save energy and protect itself from the cold. Inspired by this natural wisdom, we realized that we needed to let go of our failing business to survive. Just like the trees, we had to focus on our roots to ensure our own survival. Holding on to something that was no longer viable would have drained us completely and left us vulnerable. Sometimes, letting go is not just a choice but a necessary step to survive and ultimately grow stronger. This realization was a key moment for us, helping us to embrace change and look forward to new opportunities with renewed strength and clarity.

The Process of Letting Go

Letting go is a difficult but transformative experience, one that requires a significant amount of emotional labour and self-reflection. It forces you to confront your deepest discomforts and fears, bringing to the surface feelings you may have long avoided. When you let go, you stop trying to control every aspect of your life, which can be an incredibly challenging adjustment. However, in doing so, you begin to understand that some things are simply beyond your control, and no amount of effort or worry will change that reality. This realization can be both humbling and liberating, as it allows you to focus your energy on what you can influence and accept the rest as it is. Over time, this process can lead to a greater sense of peace and self-awareness, transforming your outlook on life. And if it is meant for you, without a doubt, it will come to you. But you cannot let go with the intention of receiving it again because that is still another form of attachment.

Living Like a Bird

A bird does not plan how to get its meal for the next day. It simply goes through life, trusting it will find what it needs through its daily activities. The bird does not worry about the future or overthink its actions; it relies on instinct to guide it to sources of food and sustenance.

Similarly, we should focus on being ourselves, not on the expectations or thoughts we impose on ourselves. We often create unnecessary stress by overanalyzing and trying to control every aspect of our lives, forgetting that sometimes letting go and being present can fulfil our needs. Just as a bird fulfils its purpose by singing, soaring through the sky, and building its nest, we fulfil ours by being true to ourselves, embracing our unique qualities, and trusting the natural flow of life.

The Importance of Loving What You Do

If you don’t love what you do, you will eventually stop pursuing it. Passion is essential for long-term success and personal fulfilment. If you don’t enjoy your work, it will drain your energy and soul over time, making it difficult to stay committed. You will either quit or lose yourself in the process, feeling a sense of emptiness and dissatisfaction. Loving what you do ensures that you remain motivated and driven, even after repeated failures and setbacks. It provides you with the resilience to overcome obstacles and the enthusiasm to continue striving towards your goals. When you are passionate about your work, it becomes more than just a job; it becomes a source of joy and inspiration, fueling your creativity and innovation.

Taking Small Steps

When you love what you do, you'll naturally take small steps every day to make your dreams a reality. These seemingly minor actions show the universe that you are fully committed to your goals and aspirations. They also help build a strong faith and confidence within yourself. This steady and consistent progress, no matter how small it may seem, is important for achieving long-term success. Through gradual and constant effort, you lay the groundwork for significant accomplishments and personal growth.